Mary Shaffran — Your Partner in Thinking Clearly
The way a leader shows up changes more than the leader. It changes the room.
Effective leadership isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about knowing yourself well enough to recognize what the moment requires—and having the space to think clearly about what comes next.
That’s where I come in.
I work with experienced leaders at significant inflection points: stepping into a new role, taking on greater responsibility, leaving a senior position, changing direction, or simply trying to make sense of what has changed.
You bring what matters. I bring curiosity, perspective, deep listening, and thoughtful challenge.
Together, we make sense of the terrain.
Experience
I've spent more than 25 years moving between worlds—government, nonprofit, private sector, boards, health IT, public health, environmental policy, business development, and organizational leadership.
Every environment has its own culture, pressures, language, relationships, and history. I've learned that leadership rarely happens in a vacuum. The same behavior can mean very different things in different systems, and what works in one environment may not work in another.
I've led multi-million-dollar programs and large, cross-functional teams. I've worked in situations where the stakes were high, the answers weren't obvious, and people were looking to the person in the room to make sense of what came next.
That experience shapes how I coach.
I don't assume I know your answer because I've seen something similar before. I use what I've learned to listen more carefully, ask better questions, and understand the context you're navigating.
Curiosity
I'm curious about people and how they make sense of the world around them.
What do they notice? What do they assume? What matters to them? What might they be seeing that hasn't yet become clear?
That curiosity is central to how I coach. I want to understand the person in front of me, not fit them into a model. I'm interested in the story beneath the story, the assumptions shaping a decision, and the questions that haven't yet been asked.
I don't need to have the answer.
I'm interested in helping you see the situation more clearly, consider what you may be missing, and resurface what you already know.
Listening
My background as a professional singer has shaped the way I listen.
I've spent years learning to listen—to tone, breath, phrasing, rhythm, energy, and the subtle shifts that can change what we hear.
That same attention comes into my coaching. I listen not only to what you say, but to what changes as you say it: the hesitation, the emphasis, the sentence you circle back to, or the moment something doesn't quite land.
Sometimes a pause matters.
Sometimes what you keep returning to matters.
Sometimes what hasn't yet been said matters most.
Often, those moments point toward something worth exploring.
The Coach I Am
I take the craft of coaching seriously.
My coaching is grounded in professional training, rigorous standards, and years of practice. I hold the PCC credential through the International Coaching Federation and an Advanced Certificate in Team Coaching, with training in Leadership Circle Profile, EQ-i, Hogan, and coach assessment and development.
But the credentials aren't the work.
The work happens in the room—in the listening, the questions, the reflection, the challenge, and the space to think.
My role isn't to give you a formula for how to lead.
It's to be a thoughtful partner as you figure out what this moment means for you.
Why I Do This Work
I believe leadership has a ripple effect.
When leaders are clear about who they are, what matters to them, and how they want to lead, it changes more than their own experience. It affects the people around them—their teams, their colleagues, their organizations, and the quality of the work they are able to do together.
That's why I care about helping leaders thrive.
I want leaders to have the space and support to lead in ways that are sustainable, grounded, and true to who they are. And I want the people who work with them to experience the difference that kind of leadership can make.
Healthier leaders can create healthier teams. Better conversations can change relationships. Greater clarity can reduce unnecessary friction and make room for people to do their best work.
That's the kind of ripple effect I want my work to have.
Let’s get started
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